tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5808744462654745575.post6978799400832466101..comments2023-10-04T10:33:30.430-04:00Comments on Tatiana Talks: It’s Official: Romance is DeadTatianahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11798184469834478557noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5808744462654745575.post-69997387432561518112009-10-28T10:54:52.023-04:002009-10-28T10:54:52.023-04:00Oh, RbR, friends and I have often debated this ver...Oh, RbR, friends and I have often debated this very issue and have decided when this is the case a second date is required -- the much dreaded is-there-any-chemistry-second date. The thought process behind this date is that no one really behaves well on the first date. You (not you personally but you in the collective) are nervous and sweating and anxious that you are going to use the wrong fork and chemistry is hard to come by under those circumstances.<br /><br />Now, second dates aren't much better (there is still some tension) but it is relaxed in that the fear of rejection is significantly reduced. So give the guy a second chance and if there is still no chemistry, give him the talk.Tatianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11798184469834478557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5808744462654745575.post-59399497786916976852009-10-17T13:54:08.217-04:002009-10-17T13:54:08.217-04:00So I'm guessing men don't have this abilit...So I'm guessing men don't have this ability? Hmm...figures. That'd be too convenient if both parties involved could recognize that they were compatible.<br /><br />...sorry, I'm bitter right now. I had an awkward date last night with a guy who was super into me but I had no chemistry with whatsoever. I'm going to have to pull the, "Hey, I think you're a really nice guy, but I don't see you like that," in the near future. That makes me feel like such a bitch. It's just getting increasingly frustrating that every single guy that's into me I feel absolutely no attraction towards. Is it even worth trying for a second date if you felt like you were wasting your time on the first?Raised by Republicansnoreply@blogger.com