Unfortunately, along with the good will come the bad. And for those, you can simply say something like, “Awe, thanks. That is really sweet of you, but I am really just getting over someone and so I’m not looking to date right now.” What? Most of that is true.
But what do you do when you aren't sure you are being asked out?
For example: A guy friend calls or emails or texts you something funny and you two are going back and forth and are laughing and then suddenly you hear (or read), “Hey, wanna grab a drink?”
What is that?